Sunday, October 27, 2024

THE PRESENT

THE PRESENT

“Blah blah blah blah blah.” My best friend Jane was talking, but my mind was racing ahead on something else, and I didn’t hear a word she said. Some of us have the habit of letting our minds go ahead of where our bodies are. We’re already thinking about the next thing, and our focus strays from the present moment. Sometimes, we get lazy and let our minds wander off. But this isn’t a good thing; it isn’t considerate of others. And if we want to get good at hearing from the Lord, we must practice listening better to people, especially those we care about.


First, John 4:20 says: “For he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen?” Listening does take some real effort, especially if you know you’re not that good at it. People want to be heard. They want to have people interested in their lives. Listening is an act of love.

 

There are more verses in the Bible about God listening to us than verses saying we need to listen to Him. That’s because God is love, and He’s an expert at listening. If we want to be more like Him, we have to want to be good listeners.

 

Here are a couple of ideas that can help:

1. As soon as you can, after a conversation, go over the conversation in your mind and try to write down what the other person said. If you know you’ve missed some things, apologize and try to remember to ask them again later. Most people will forgive you and be glad you made an effort to ask again.

2. If you ask a question and get a complicated answer, or you aren’t clear on the person’s answer, repeat it back to the person to see if you got it right.

These are two straightforward and practical ways to build listening skills with people. But we can also use these with the Lord. If you feel He’s telling you something, write it down. If you’re unclear on what He’s saying to you, repeat it back to Him. He’ll let you know if you got it. Remember, He loves you. He’s a great listener and wants us to be great at it too. “MY SHEEP HEAR MY VOICE” (John 10:27).

 

To live in the moment is a gift. That’s why it’s called the present!

“Who hath ears to hear, let him hear” (Matt. 13:9).

Love, Carolyn

 

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Sunday, October 20, 2024

ANGELS, DREAMS, SIGNS, AND WONDERS


 

ANGELS, DREAMS, SIGNS, AND WONDERS

How do you “hear” from the Lord? Have you ever had an angel come to give you a message? Does the Lord sometimes give you a message through a dream or an open vision? How about a wonder? The Lord has many ways to get our attention, and it’s good to remind ourselves of the different ways He’s communicated with us in the past. But if you are wishing that He would talk to you more, I have a suggestion.

 

I’ve found it helpful to go to the Bible and check out the various ways He’s communicated to others. It gives us an idea of what we might pray for and believe to receive. Like it says in Matthew 7:8: “For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.” And when I am claiming something from the scripture, I like to follow it with the words of Mary, the mother of Jesus: “Be it unto me according to thy word” (Luke 1:38).

 

Today, I want to take you to the story of Gideon. God used a combination of ways to communicate with Gideon, so if we pay attention, we’ll learn a lot about how our Lord is willing to communicating with us too.

 

The people of God had turned away from Him, leaving themselves open to oppression. When their way of living was demolished, they finally turned back to God and cried out for help. It’s recorded in Judges 6 - 9. For brevity’s sake, I won’t go over every verse, but I hope you’ll read it for yourself as soon as you can.

 

“And so it was, when Israel had sown, that the Midianites came up, and the Amalekites, and the children of the east, even they came up against them” (Judg. 6:3).

 

“They came as grasshoppers for multitude; for both they and their camels were without number: and they entered into the land to destroy it. And Israel was greatly impoverished because of the Midianites; and the children of Israel cried unto the Lord” (vv. 5-6)

 

Enter, an angel from God, to begin the deliverance of His people:

 

“And there came an angel of the Lord, and sat under an oak” (v. 11) “And said [to Gideon], ‘Go in this thy might, and thou shalt save Israel from the hand of the Midianites” (v. 14). 

 

This next verse is important for us to remember for later when God gives Gideon a message from a dream.

 

“And he [Gideon] said unto him, ‘Oh my Lord, wherewith shall I save Israel? Behold, my family is poor in Manasseh, and I am the least in my father’s house’” (v. 15)

 

Then Gideon asks God to give him a sign that all of this about him being a hero is for real:

 

“And the Lord said unto him, ‘Surely I will be with thee, and thou shalt smite the Midianites as one man. And he said unto him, ‘If now I have found grace in thy sight, then shew me a sign that thou talkest with me. (vv. 16-17).

 

Up to this point, Gideon thinks that this person who came to him is actually a flesh and blood man who is delivering a message from God. Gideon wants to know if the message is really from God, so he asks for some kind of a sign. He then tells the “man” to wait while he goes and prepares a meal for him. When he brings the meal back out to the person he thought was a man, a very interesting thing happens:

 

“The angel of God [who Gideon thought was a man], said unto him, ‘Take the flesh and the unleavened cakes, and lay them upon this rock, and pour out the broth.’ And he did so. Then the angel of the Lord put forth the end of the staff that was in his hand, and touched the flesh and the unleavened cakes; and there rose up fire out of the rock, and consumed the flesh and the unleavened cakes.

 

“Then the angel of the Lord departed out of his sight. And Gideon perceived that he was an angel of the Lord” (vv. 20-22)

 

So, Gideon got his prayer answered and God gave him the first sign that he asked for. We need to realize that God is more than willing to give us whatever it is that we need, to carry out our missions for Him. We may be the ones who pray the perfect prayer for our neighborhood, or we may be the perfect person to speak to the parent/teacher group. Whatever it is that God is urging us to do, we can do it, but God never expects us to do it alone. He will give us an angel, a sign, a dream, a wonder, whatever it takes to help us to be the heroes He’s called us to be.

 

Then later in the story, it’s time to actually go into battle. All the Israelites are enthused and ready to go for it, but God tells Gideon no. God can’t let everyone do the fighting because He knows they are too egotistical.

 

And the Lord said unto Gideon, ‘The people that are with thee are too many for me to give the Midianites into their hands, lest Israel vaunt themselves against me, saying, ‘Mine own hand hath saved me’” (Judg. 7:2).

 

God showed Gideon how to minimize the number of soldiers from the 10,000 he had, down to only 300!

 

And the Midianites and the Amalekites and all the children of the east lay along in the valley like grasshoppers for multitude; and their camels were without number, as the sand by the sea side for multitude” (7:12).

 

Gideon must have been terrified at this point, or at least hesitant about taking only 300 soldiers against a huge multitude of enemies. And this is where God sends Gideon a message through another man’s dream.

 

“And when Gideon was come, behold, there was a man that told a dream unto his fellow, and said, ‘Behold, I dreamed a dream, and, lo, a cake of barley bread tumbled into the host of Midian, and came unto a tent, and smote it that it fell, and overturned it, that the tent lay along. 

 

When Gideon heard this man recite his dream, Gideon knew instantly that it was another message from God for him. Remember how Gideon responded to when the angel first came to him? He said: “My family is poor in Manasseh, and I am the least in my father’s house” (Judg. 6:15). Barley for the Israelites was considered poor men’s bread. So when Gideon heard this dream, he knew that the cake of barley bread that would take down the Midianites was none other than he himself and his mere troop of 300 men. Finally, Gideon was totally convinced.

 

And it was so, when Gideon heard the telling of the dream, and the interpretation thereof, that he worshipped, and returned into the host of Israel, and said, ‘Arise; for the Lord hath delivered into your hand the host of Midian” (7: 13-15).

  

Gideon and his 300 men went on to defeat the enemy and there was peace in the land for the next forty years.

 

We see with Gideon that God was willing to communicate in many different supernatural ways. The Lord is no less compassionate toward us. We’re all heroes like Gideon in His eyes, and all worthy of angel visits, signs, miracles, wonders, dreams, and visions, all to the glory of our God and to bless us as individuals.

 

You’ll really enjoy reading Judges 6-9 for the whole story.

 

Love, Carolyn 

 

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Sunday, October 13, 2024

COUNT TO TEN AND BE MORE CHRIST-LIKE


 

COUNT TO TEN AND BE MORE CHRIST-LIKE

I was sitting quietly in a coffee shop with my laptop, notebook, and Bible, totally engaged in a word study, when out of my peripheral vision, a nightmarish face invaded my space. It startled me, and I grabbed my purse from the empty chair next to me and slid it onto the floor by my feet. I had earplugs in so I couldn’t hear what the grizzly-looking man was mumbling. A few moments passed, and I heard Jane’s clear voice coming from the next table: “We’re working here. We don’t have time to talk.” The man angrily mumbled something about the Bible and got up and left in a matter of minutes.

 

Later on, Jane and I talked about it. She told me she was ready to fry the guy with her words the minute she saw him approach me, but she’s been practicing counting to ten before she speaks. It was amazing. Her quiet, honest words only got one low, grumbled complaint before the nightmare man left.

 

I thought about a lesson I’d heard as a child: “When you get angry, count to ten before you speak.” Jane counts “one one thousand, two one thousand, three one thousand, etc.” I learned it as: “one dimension, two dimension, etc.” I think it works with any three-syllable word, but the point is, it does work.

 

My tendency is to sit there and boil on the inside until I can hardly stand it and can’t concentrate anymore. Either that, or I fire off some snide remark out loud or under my breath.

 

Not Jane. She counted to ten and calmly and clearly told the man we didn’t have time for conversation. And it was true. I was studying for an article, and she was working on promotions.

 

There are several verses in the Bible that say God is slow to anger. We are to “be imitators of God, as beloved children” (Eph. 5:1).

 

Nehemiah 9:17 says this: “Thou art a God ready to pardon, gracious and merciful, slow to anger, and of great kindness.”

 

Counting to ten is one way to make sure we don’t fly off the handle in rage, but instead, be more like God, slow to anger. By calming ourselves, we give the Spirit a chance to work, instead of being led by emotion.

 

Ever since I was a little girl, I’ve had a hot temper (maybe partly my Sicilian background?), but the truth is that no matter where it came from, only God can really change those built-in character bents. Unlike one who “flies off the handle,” the Lord is “merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and plenteous in mercy” (Ps. 103:8).

 

Psalm 145:8 tells us: “The Lord is gracious, and full of compassion; slow to anger, and of great mercy.” Anyone who knows the old Jane, knows she can cut to the bone and turn a live person to sand (figuratively) with her words. But her answer to the scary man in the coffee shop was full of compassion. She spoke the words calmly and straightforward. After counting to ten, she had no anger, just truth.

 

Solomon's wisdom on slowing down our wrath is found in Proverbs 15:18: “A wrathful man stirreth up strife: but he that is slow to anger appeaseth strife.”

 

And Solomon goes on to say, “Better to be slow to anger than to be a mighty warrior, and one who controls his temper is better than one who captures a city” (Prov. 16:32). These are some powerful words.

 

Is it worth it to count to ten to calm our anger? Definitely! It is God’s will that we do it, as we can see from these scriptures.

 

In the Amplified version of Colossians 3:1-3, the Apostle Paul admonishes us as Christians: “If ye then be risen with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ is sitting on the right hand of God. [We’ll be there soon.] Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth. For [in reality] ye are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God.” He goes on to say in verse 5: “Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth.” Anger is among the things he lists.  

 

If you know any other way to be slow to anger, God bless you. For now, since I’ve seen the amazing true results in Jane, I’m going with “one dimension, two dimension, three dimension, four dimension, five dimension, six dimension . . . . With the Lord’s help, we can definitely change some of those bad habits from our past.

 

A few days after the first incident, the same man walked by Jane in the same coffee shop, and the demon in him audibly growled at her! But Jane had no fear, and the man left. I pray that one day, this man has the same experience as the man of the Gadarenes in Mark 5:15: “ And they come to Jesus, and see him that was possessed with the devil, and had the legion, sitting, and clothed, and in his right mind.” And though we were not led to minister to this man at the time, I totally believe it is possible for him to be delivered and made completely whole. All things are possible with God.

 

One dimension, two dimension . . .

 

Love, Carolyn

 

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Sunday, October 6, 2024

HURRICANE

 The hurricane disaster is the uppermost thing in my mind today, so I'm sharing this video. And of course I encourage you to pray as you watch it.

Very real video of real people in the area of North Carolina Hurricane aftermath. Please watch. Here are a few of the places that seem to be helping, for real, in the area. Check them out and send some money if you can. United Cajun Navy, Grind Stone Ministries, Operation Eardrop, Mountain Mulepacker Ranch - P.O. Box 653, Mount Ulla NC 28125. (those of you who know me, know where I sent $$)